The shortest answer to this question is a question to you as seen in the creative banner above. “Does he go down on you?”.
I’m really tired of hearing people, mostly men, BS about the quantity and endurance they have when they have sex. I hear claims from men, “ I was pounding her for two hours straight”. Let’s understand something crucial here first. Time goes by slowly when you are having sex. Two minutes can feel like 10 minutes and any body that engages in sex penetration for two hours straight is simply full of shit unless they are on some sort of drug . Getting back to the main question on how to I get my man to last longer in bed, the main concern I’m hearing is “I’m not sexually satisfied”.
Is this a matter of quantity of sex and stamina, or is this really about the QUALITY of sex. Simply put, you are not getting your orgasm from your man’s pathetic two minute performance of his epileptic like seizure when he’s on top of you, then releases his baby batter, rolls over, and fall asleep. This leaves you unsatisfied, somewhat hurt and disappointed and wanting more, more of something better that is.
For a woman, she must be thinking, “wtf, he get’s to get off every time, but what about my pleasure, my orgasm?”. The issue is that he’s not getting you off first. If your man would go down town on you first and can get you off one or several times, when he does finally mount you and have his usual seizure like performance, you’ll be begging him to cum as soon as possible.
Now the next question is, how do I get HIM to go down on me and stay down longer? My fellow sisters who are reading this post, please understand that a few licks down there is not sufficient. You will need a good solid 10 minutes of cunnilingus to get your fix.
What if your man doesn’t really go down on you, how do you get him to do that? Answer:, make yourself look presentable as possible down there. If you can, try to get a nice Brazilian waxing in a salon, or shave as much as possible down there. If you never considered getting a waxing, or you normally don’t trim below the belt, start doing that. When you show your man the trouble you went through to turn him on, he will turn your magic box into his personal 7–11 “slurpy” drink.
Remember to keep that thing as clean as possible and he won’t be able to keep his tongue very tame when he sees it.
If he still doesn’t get the hint, you have to be direct and simply say to him, “I need your tongue down there.” Make sure he does what he does what he needs to do, and give him pointers and a little guidance. Don’t be shy, and speak up. Be direct and tell him you need to be eaten out. Don’t let him stop until you had your fix. The rule is that he can’t stick his schlong in you until you have your orgasm first.
I know this is not the only answer, and there may be some deeper issues than the lack of cunnilingus. However, you don’t know until you try.
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